Gentiel the cat and fulfilling her (unbeknowest to her) bucket list of camping on the west coast

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I needed some time to disconnect and relax. A vacation was required after a long and busy tax season!

Gentile has only been with us for a short time and only now just letting us get close to her.  She came to live with us after her long time (13 years)  care giver died.  Just before her care giver died, Gentile, went from place to place and lived a very unsettled time.  So to leave her alone was not an option! To take her someplace else for our trip would be too much a reminder of when she lost her care giver so the only option left was to take her with us.Camping 2013 018

So we packed up the gear, the food, Loki (the dog who lives up to her name), Gentile and headed for a little lake outside of Port Renfrew on the west coast of Vancouver Island named Fairy Lake.

She wasn’t too happy with the car ride at first – too many vet visits in the years gone by – but the quilted bag allowed her to settle with ease on my lap. 

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Once we were unpacked and somewhat settled, we put her on a long leash and she would wonder the site following the sun!

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Gentile and Loki enjoyed relaxing in the sun – Gentile even let Loki get very close as long as Loki was still!

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As much as she enjoyed laying in the sun whenever possible she was very happy to get home and curl up on my desk.Camping 2013 005

My partner and I were happy to accommodate the bucket list of Gentile even though she did not yet know that it was an experience that she wanted and would love.

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Part of the Team

Awesome!

An Award!

It has been a long time since any one has thought of me as a team player (oh the joys of being self employed!)

Thank you montanadesigns for nominating me Wonderful Team Member Readership Award.

So the rules are to nominate 14… yes 14 blogs with 7 days.

Here are my 14 team readers .

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didyoumakethat

lesleycarter

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themateriallady

A THOUGHT FOR TODAY:

It is not so much our friends’ help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us. -Epicurus, philosopher (c. 341-270 BCE)

The Skirt

 

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The Help

 

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The pocket in a contrasting woven cotton strip.

 

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The first look – workable!

 

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This is still a work in progress.

Photograph’s and images

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As a society they have grown with us and sometimes lead us. 

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Photographs portray a moment in time. 

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And yearning.

Bandits

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pleadings

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The improbable

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Attitudes

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Gentleness.

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They allow us to imagine and explore our planet and our place in it.

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A photograph can make the ordinary beautiful.

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Most importantly, photographs allow us to reach beyond where we are. 

Pictures teach. 

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Say no to child porn.  It teaches us to harm other for a picture!

A loving goodbuy

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My friend loved the this original photo and had it up in her room right till the end.

Yesterday my friend passed quietly away – her fragile strength overwhelmed by cancer.  I took Gentielle the ginger cat to see her  shortly before she passed- My friend knew we were there but was not able to pull herself in to conciseness.  It was hard for Gentielle to be apart from her master. I felt the few pounds of cat would be too disruptive and a sharp claw too hurtful, that was my decision not Gentielle.  Gentielle then let me hold her for the first time since I have known her.  I stood with her for 20 minuets or more in my arm at our friends bedside.  Gentielle watched the face of my friend these many minuets as the fragile strength of breaths struggled to let go. I like to think it was that she was looking for recognition of her friend and caregiver of many years who the same…

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I cleaned my desk!

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Gentielle also loves the clean desk!

Tax forms are out and the clients call, email and the occasional one just shows up!  My sewing machines are packed and ready to into the shop.  The Pfaff won’t stay threaded and the Husqvarna surger is reshaping needles as I sew.  What ever mending I have been meaning to get to has to wait.

A client was delayed yesterday so I took the time to clean my desk.  Cat hairs and ink blotches on the desk were becoming bigger as the week was spent.

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I tried looking for a picture from the end of last tax season and actually there is no picture of the desk at the end of tax time.  It is a blur of white with tracks of yellow, green & blue.  The image is imposed on my memory – I have seen it many times yet I have not yet ventured to take pictures of my desk during the work.  Really, I see it all the time so a photo would too bland to view.

What I did find was Loki looking amiss in the sun while I work at my desk.

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This was taken last year, March 3.  The sun was streaming in the office and was landing neatly on my client chair. Dear Loki was needing more attention so upon the realization that those who previously sat in this chair had my attention she jumped up and

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sat in the warm sun.

So again this year I will neglect her for the stream of kind souls who file past this desk – it is only a few months each year and she will be happy for summer suns and warmer times as that is  when my work will slow down.

Close to the end – my friend Passed away yesterday.

The Last visit

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My friend loved the this original photo and had it up in her room right till the end.

Yesterday my friend passed quietly away – her fragile strength overwhelmed by cancer.  I took Gentielle the ginger cat to see her  shortly before she passed- My friend knew we were there but was not able to pull herself in to conciseness.  It was hard for Gentielle to be apart from her master. I felt the few pounds of cat would be too disruptive and a sharp claw too hurtful, that was my decision not Gentielle.  Gentielle then let me hold her for the first time since I have known her.  I stood with her for 20 minuets or more in my arm at our friends bedside.  Gentielle watched the face of my friend these many minuets as the fragile strength of breaths struggled to let go. I like to think it was that she was looking for recognition of her friend and caregiver of many years who the same but different. But she looked and I held her as our friend began her journey of the soul.

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I like this version as the compassion and long time friendship shows in the ever delicate movements between these two old friends.

Gentielle has taken well to her new home.  She is old, 14 by all accounts but still able and frisky.  Enjoys sitting on top of the office speakers as they are warm and it is a up a great distance from the dog.

A close friend of mine is now in hospice.  The breast cancer is taking its toll on her fragile strength.  My partner and I have adopted her long time friend Gentile the ginger cat.  For 13 years they were close friend and allies in our every changing world.

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Now the circle of life brings on a change that is hard for either to accept however both are grateful for the time that they share together.

Their comfort and bonds are all too evident in this photograph.  I have embossed it to protect the identity of my friend as she is not too please with all of this social media.  Nor the effects of the hard medication that allows her to struggle on against this cancer.

Of note: all photos are my original photos.

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Boticanial Beach

Stunning even in the fog!

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The silent power of the sea speaks loudly here!  Barren rock with hidden tide pools lush with urchins, sea weeds and a  nursery for the young fish.

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A nice shelter made of driftwood – next storm will reveal the roots of an old tree long washed into the water some winter night long ago.

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The morning fog defies the boundary between us and the sea.

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A testament to time it’s self.

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The way we came

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The never ending search for sustenance.

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The starkness of this diversity is where we find prosperity – not in the sameness that so many of us desire.

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Checks and balances

 
 
 
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I awoke smiling this last Sunday morning.  A funny thing was running through my head.  It was  “checks and balances”.
Like I said it was a funny thing.
Checks and balances are what I do each and every day to earn my keep.  So when this phrase (or the concept of the phrase) comes up in the news, I take notice.  Kevin Page’s Parliamentary Budget Office of Canada knows all too well the importance of checks and balances in all that we do.  It is a benchmark of our honesty, our integrity and our humanity.  Mr. Page first made headlines late last fall when he was unable to get documentation to balance our honesty, our integrity and our humanity within our parliament.  He was looking for what wasn’t in the budget of the departments of Canada – he wanted to vet what no longer was as per the budget cuts of the prior year. I never did find out if he succeeded in all of his mandate. But he did find something – the budget cuts were the cuts of service to the public. I was dismayed yet I never thought he would find otherwise.
Mr. Page was back in the headlines last week.  So, I took notice.  And it seemed to have stuck – so much so that the first thought of my Sunday morning were Checks and Balances.

Every one I know runs some sort of Checks and Balances each and every day.  I MEAN everyone.  Our bank accounts, our chores, our family – we are programed to run these little scripts. It is when these scripts become part of the social network that we have a civilization.  Some times good, sometimes not.  But these checks and balances are our differential humanity. Even Dogs do it.  Not they are wholly civilized however they have been domesticated and maybe it is the same thing. 

But what struck me the most this Sunday morning was that missing bits Mr. Page was going on about. The part that we don’t see is often what gets to us the most in the end.  And what he wasn’t seeing was where the budget cuts were being materialized in Canada’s numerous departments.   Apparently when Mr. Page finally did get to see all of the parts, what he saw a was a diminutive service to all those who pay the bills  – the tax payer.  And on Sunday morning it clicked – the diminutive services to the public is an open doorway to corruption. 

Now I am not accusing our well paid public service of being corrupt.  Not in the slightest.  They are very well paid and it only stands to reason that when the members of Parliament issued budget cuts to all departments to balance the books of Canada that these well paid servants had to ensure that they continued in their well paying jobs.  So they cut the services in our public service hence fewer resources for the people who pay – the tax payer.  So when a non public person needs a service and they have some additional funds it stands to reason that they will be willing to pay for the service – hence the opening of the doors of corruption.  

It is a slippery slope that we have embarked upon. And the interesting thing about it is how it starts of simply enough. 

What to keep–the supporting documents behind the receipts.

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Say what?Sad smile  Layers of paper to prove your existence to the governments.  And now even more!  More paper to prove the you needed the additional training, supplies etc. But what do they consist of?

When I was on the board of directors for a local non profit I came to the realization that “ data = funding “.  The more data that you have the more likely you are to receive or keep funds attached to the data.  This concept is not limited to NPO’s.  It works for any business, organization or even government.  And most certainly for the auditors when they come to overview your books, business and other write-offs.

For the number savvy it is easy, a computer program of accounting is a good place to start.  It will track your invoices and expenses. However, it dose not track the why of some of the more ethereal expense like travel – why did you need to go? To you when it is happening, it is an easy to validate.  Two years on however, some of the data can be misplaced.  The receipts can be small or large yet when you really need them, they have vanished!  Auditors find that if you can not validate an expense, then you really did not need it for business.  They only look at the presented data and they can only look at though their own meager experience.  The only way an auditor can look at the data with your eyes is to include a detailed account of the data.  It can put it into context better then begging.

If you consider your business like a ship, then you would be close to what is required to keep.  A log!  For some, the log is the same as the appointment book or desktop calendar.  it is a running detailed account of what you did to earn your money.  This log needs to included who you had lunch with and what you discussed – this is so you can write off your business meal.  The last bit of detail for this log is the place, time and amount spent.  This may be your proof along with the original receipt that it was a valid business expenses . My current experience with our government and it’s auditors  is  that we should not be spending money to make money in any fashion that we can not prove in three different formats.

  • The first is the original receipt.  To this receipt add additional detail like the product or person involved.    Some retailers only give a code for the product and if this is the case, write in what it was – a pen, paper, shelf etc..  For a meal include the initials of the client or contractor involved – don’t forget to include the tip.  For travel, ensure that the start and end destinations are clear along with additional charges like airport fees and taxes. 
  • The second is the additional information required to prove that you needed the cost of the expense for business.  This can included conference material as your reason for travel – print it and keep a copy of it with your travel expenses.  The same goes for professional development – keep a detailed account of the course including materials required.  If not, the auditor will assume it is a personal expense. Do like wise for all expenditures that are outside of the normal pens and pencils of business.
  • The Third is the log.  Keep a detailed account of where you where, how you got there, how many miles or KM you drove, what you did there, who you saw including what you discussed in point form and their phone number.  The more data the better you will fare in an audit.

Good luck in your business is usually made by long hours and detail in the small things. Keep up the good work.